But the questions always stay the same.
The Little Wildflowers Approach in a series of questions.
What is your child challenged by? What are the ‘hard parts’ for your child and what contributes to their challenges?
Which contributing factors could be avoided, removed or minimised?
What lights your child up? What are their special interests and gifts?
How could more of these things be brought into every day for them to balance the challenge?
What does your child need from you when they are challenged by the hard parts?
What does your child need from you to be able to experience their gifts and feel lit up?
What do you need to be able to meet these needs for your child?
The answers change from time to time, from age and stage, sometimes from week to week or moment to moment.
But the questions always stay the same.
Learning what they are, when and how to come back to them and most importantly how to find the answers from within, rather than from the outside world, has turned this house from one of turmoil and difficulty to one of ease and flow. Even though the challenges are still very much what they were ten years ago.
And that’s why I do what I do